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Stop putting her on a pedestal
Oct 06, 2025

Stop putting her on a pedestal

... the one thing every man must realise eventually

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
RelationshipsRelationships
6 shifts to attract a loyal, feminine woman
Sep 25, 2025

6 shifts to attract a loyal, feminine woman

... start doing this immediately

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
RelationshipsRelationships
The easiest way to approach a woman
Sep 11, 2025

The easiest way to approach a woman

... the skill every man needs

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
MasculinityMasculinity
Who's life are you really living?
Aug 14, 2025

Who's life are you really living?

... the moment a man realises it's time to change

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
The day my girlfriend left me for “the guy I shouldn’t worry about”
Aug 13, 2025

The day my girlfriend left me for “the guy I shouldn’t worry about”

... my nice guy had to die

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
RelationshipsRelationships
How to stop freezing up around women
Aug 10, 2025

How to stop freezing up around women

this is the only way

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
RelationshipsRelationships
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You don’t need more confidence...you need less shame
Aug 02, 2025

You don’t need more confidence...you need less shame

the key to being yourself

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
When you realise this .. dating becomes easy
Jul 30, 2025

When you realise this .. dating becomes easy

three simple words

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
"Nice guys" aren't nice. They're scared
Jul 05, 2025

"Nice guys" aren't nice. They're scared

don't let fear win

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
RelationshipsRelationships
Why "nice guys" attract chaotic women
Jun 22, 2025

Why "nice guys" attract chaotic women

... it's all about leadership

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
Regular insights to help you heal, stop pleasing others and start fearlessly living on your own terms in work, life and relationships.

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