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Masculinity

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My conversation with Dr. Robert Glover

Dec 13, 2025

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3 min read

My conversation with Dr. Robert Glover

a massive thankyou to YOU

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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Why nobody respects a harmless man

Nov 7, 2025

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3 min read

Why nobody respects a harmless man

.. the truth all men need to hear

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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How much disrespect do you tolerate?

Oct 28, 2025

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4 min read

How much disrespect do you tolerate?

... it's time to start teaching people how to respect you

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

Who's life are you really living?

Aug 14, 2025

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3 min read

Who's life are you really living?

... the moment a man realises it's time to change

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

Dark masculine shadow work: the key to finally killing the nice guy

Jun 10, 2025

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6 min read

Dark masculine shadow work: the key to finally killing the nice guy

Unlock your hidden potential

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

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I lost 10kg by reparenting my inner child

May 21, 2025

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5 min read

I lost 10kg by reparenting my inner child

... and how you can too

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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Why women don't respect "nice guys"

Apr 20, 2025

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4 min read

Why women don't respect "nice guys"

... the moment I realised a hard truth

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

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WHY EVERY MAN SHOULD TRAIN A MARTIAL ART

Apr 1, 2025

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4 min read

WHY EVERY MAN SHOULD TRAIN A MARTIAL ART

... awaken the warrior in you and watch your life get better

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

The 5 Things Confident Men NEVER Do

Mar 30, 2025

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3 min read

The 5 Things Confident Men NEVER Do

Are you making these mistakes?

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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how to get out of "nice guy hell"

Mar 1, 2025

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7 min read

how to get out of "nice guy hell"

3 demons you need to slay

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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5 things that happen when you finally start standing up for yourself

Feb 26, 2025

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6 min read

5 things that happen when you finally start standing up for yourself

"... you deserve to be here. You deserve respect."

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

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5 signs a man is too passive

Feb 20, 2025

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3 min read

5 signs a man is too passive

... stop letting life happen to you

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

Are you going through a masculine awakening?

Feb 13, 2025

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3 min read

Are you going through a masculine awakening?

... breakdowns are breakthroughs in disguise

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

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5 clear signs a man has an unhealed father wound

Feb 8, 2025

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5 min read

5 clear signs a man has an unhealed father wound

... healing starts now

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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Being "nice" killed my sex life

Feb 6, 2025

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4 min read

Being "nice" killed my sex life

... 3 things every man needs to hear

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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I recently turned down a hot woman

Feb 4, 2025

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4 min read

I recently turned down a hot woman

... living in integrity requires sacrifice

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

Stop being a "good boy..."

Jan 27, 2025

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2 min read

Stop being a "good boy..."

... start being your own man

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

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How overprotective parents create needy men

Oct 2, 2024

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6 min read

How overprotective parents create needy men

... break free and become an independent man

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

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Modern men are NOT okay...

Sep 26, 2024

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7 min read

Modern men are NOT okay...

5 ways to embody the NEW masculine

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
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