The Lucas Letter
Regular insights to help you heal, stop pleasing others and start fearlessly living on your own terms in work, life and relationships.
Written by
Oliver Robert Lucas
Connect
Feb 25, 2025
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7 min read
"if writing were a person, I would owe them my life."
Feb 3, 2026
3 min read
... is it doing the same for you?
Jan 30, 2026
.. the missing link for 95% of men
Jan 19, 2026
4 min read
... it's spiritual suicide
Jan 16, 2026
... don't ignore these
Jan 4, 2026
5 min read
... a lesson in quietly ending people-pleasing
Dec 31, 2025
... you slowly lose your masculine confidence
Relationships
+1
Dec 16, 2025
don't be a YES MAN
Masculinity
Dec 13, 2025
a massive thankyou to YOU
Psychology
Dec 9, 2025
the most important thing you will ever do
