The Lucas Letter
Regular insights to help you heal, stop pleasing others and start fearlessly living on your own terms in work, life and relationships.
Written by
Oliver Robert Lucas
Connect
Feb 25, 2025
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7 min read
"if writing were a person, I would owe them my life."
Apr 9, 2026
5 min read
The Three Levels Of Communication
Mar 29, 2026
4 min read
... the missing link all along
Mar 19, 2026
3 min read
... you can't avoid it
Mar 8, 2026
... let honesty kick your ass and set you free
Relationships
Feb 27, 2026
6 min read
.. the real reason (and how to stop)
Feb 20, 2026
... this has to stop
Feb 16, 2026
the core wound of modern men
Feb 11, 2026
"life is more fun when you get off the fence"
Feb 8, 2026
2 min read
Will you step into the circle?