Alright, mate.
If you are:
needy and insecure with women
brutally cruel to yourself in your head
feeling lost in life
confused about who you are
up doom/porn-scrolling in bed at 3am just to feel good
Then I can practically guarantee something:
You lack connection with good, strong men.
Am I wrong?
Here’s the thing:
Fatherlessness, isolation from other men, dopamine-addiction and no healthy rites of passage have created a society full of boys trapped in the bodies of men.
Men with little to no self-trust.
Incapable of forming real, authentic relationships.
Completely avoidant of conflict or intense emotions.
And it’s through NO fault of their own.
The solutions being peddled are:
make more money, get jacked, be more alpha, give less fucks and whatever other manosphere bullshit being peddled
But you’re reading this because you’re smarter than to believe that.
So here’s the real thing most men need to become the loving, powerful, competent and confident man they KNOW they can be …
It’s to surround themselves with better men.
Men who…
value truth, integrity and personal growth
love you enough to not let you off the hook when you’re hiding, shrinking or avoiding life.
ACCEPT you fully as you are, imperfections included.
genuinely give a shit about you (as hard as they may be to believe).
When a man surrounds himself with men like this …
(especially if he’s a Nice Guy or people-pleaser)
He initiates a process that his father and tribe should have given him … but didn’t.
And that’s an initiation into healthy masculinity.
12 months of that and he’s not a boy anymore.
I know this because it was my exact experience.
Several years ago, I joined my first men’s group after my girlfriend cheated on me.
Instead of get angry at her, I decided to stop blaming, avoiding and running …
And start doing the work on myself.
I was never the same again.
Not only did it completely fix my relationships with women.
It fixed my relationship with myself.
This is why I launched my weekly men’s group on Tuesdays.
It’s exceeded expectations in every conceivable way (according to the guys).
And I’m inviting you to join us.
We have spaces open to join at the end of the month (your first call will be on March 31st).
So if you’re done flip-flopping, watching YouTube videos about personal growth but still feeling stuck …
Then maybe it’s time to actually do something about it.
I’m excited to meet you.
Stay courageous,
OC
