If your father failed you...

Hey man,

What I’m writing about today is undoubtedly the most important thing I will ever talk about.

If you:

• struggle with low self-confidence

• have a brutal inner critic

• are afraid of confrontation or assertiveness

• procrastinate constantly

• don’t believe in yourself

• wander aimlessly without purpose or direction

• feel like a boy … not a man

Then what I’m talking about might just be the root cause of all of it.

And that’s your relationship with your father.

What was your father like growing up?

• Was he a strong, capable, and emotionally present man?

• Did he encourage, challenge, and love you?

• Did he set clear and solid boundaries for you to follow?

• Did he give you an inspiring example of what a man should be?

Or:

• Was he abusive, either physically or emotionally?

• Was he emasculated and passive, watching TV while he let your controlling mother dominate the home?

• Was he just completely absent from your life?

Regardless of the details, one thing is certain…

For a boy to become a man, a father is needed.

Nature turns girls into women.

Fathers turn boys into men.

This is how it should be.

But how many of us had that loving yet challenging fatherly presence growing up?

I certainly didn’t.

My father was an emotionally volatile alcoholic, prone to fly into fits of explosive rage at a moment’s notice. The anxiety I battle to this day stems from the fear I experienced as a child of my father’s frequent rage attacks.

I didn’t have the fatherly energy a boy needs.

And the truth is, I know I’m not alone.

We live in the age of the absent father.

Many men are wandering around as lost boys because the void of fatherlessness has never been filled. That void became a wounded inner child who never got the love, encouragement, and support he desperately needed.

This is THE core wound that modern man carries today.

Countless men are chasing status, money, women, and achievement to quiet the wounded, crying boy in their minds.

If you want to heal and become the strong, capable, and independent man you know you could be … healing this wound should be at the top of your list of priorities.

And it’s absolutely possible. How? Because this is what I did.

Life only started getting better for me when I got the courage to do the work that scared me the most. That was healing my father wound.

But how do we heal that wound?

The answer is simple…not easy.

You live as if your father is already dead, and you become your own father. That means turning towards the wounded boy in your mind and giving him everything you never got growing up.

This is how you heal the wounds that keep you trapped.

This is how you build unshakeable self-worth.

This is how you change your life, not just in short bursts, but forever.

I will be focusing on this wound for the next couple of weeks…

Because soon I will be leading the most important thing I will ever offer you.

And that’s a live course delivered to a select group of men with the single intention of healing our father wounds together.

You will be taken step by step with daily exercises, weekly lessons, and guided meditations for healing the core wound of men today.

In this 30-day course, you will experience a year (or much more) worth of therapy IF you do the work.

And it won’t break the bank. I’m intentionally pricing it low enough to allow this type of healing work to be as available to as many men as possible.

You won’t be alone.

This course will be delivered to a group of other growth-focused men just like yourself. You will meet other men who are on the path of deep personal growth.

If you’re ready to become the strong, powerful emotionally resilient, independent man you know you could be …

Then click your answer in the poll below.

Expect more details in the next week.

Take care, brother.

With love,

OC